A simple question, but powerful challenge, to carry you into 2026.
As we stand at the start of a new year, with to-do lists drafted, words chosen and intentions set, I want to offer you a question to consider. One that has a way of slowing us down, sharpening our focus and gently but firmly calling us to do more.
That question? Are you a turkey person?
Not in the holiday-meal sense, but in the way you show up for others.
Years ago, that question changed the trajectory of a football team, a community and a life. And years later, when I heard it, it did the same for me. Let me explain.
When Bill Courtney was coaching in North Memphis, he asked his team captain why there was so little engagement in the team. He learned it was because the players didn’t believe in him. They worried he’d be like all the other people who were there to “save” them. The type who show up once a year, roll down their windows, drop off a turkey for the holidays and then leave.
The players had a name for it.
Turkey people.
Then came the question that cut straight to the heart: Are you a turkey person, Coach?
Bill heard the question and realized that if his stint with the team was temporary on the way to something else- something more desirable, more opportunistic, easier- then his impact would be too. So he recommitted himself. He stayed. And showed up, again and again. And everything changed.
What started as 19 players grew to 75. A losing program became a perennial winner. And most importantly, more of his seniors went on to college.
That kind of impact is not possible with gifts from a turkey person. That’s the kind of impact that changes lives.
So my friends, as we ease into 2026, here’s the challenge for all of us. This year, let’s go beyond the generosity so popular during the holiday season.
Because consistent generosity does something powerful. It tells people they matter today, not just on special occasions. And when people feel seen consistently, they begin to believe differently about themselves and about what’s possible.
So as 2026 begins, let this be our challenge:
Be consistent.
Be generous.
Don’t be a turkey person.
And Live Inspired.
P.S. Over the years, one of my personal reminders to not be a “turkey person” has been my involvement with Big Brothers Big Sisters. I’ve learned far more than I’ve ever given, and it’s reinforced for me that real impact is built slowly through commitment, consistency, and relationships. I’d love to hear how you try to live this out in your life, too! Please share in the comments below. Because stories like this have a way of encouraging all of us to keep showing up.
10 replies on “Are You a Turkey Person?”
I have been working as a Volunteer in my church Kids Life Ministry for the last 10 years engaging with the kids in both of our Sunday services – I have always felt the need for the kids to know that I will always be there as long as I am able
When my job in healthcare took me away from the patient bedside I found another way to “not be a turkey”. My dogs and I teamed up to visit kids in the hospital and in foster care a few times a month. I see that their cuddles not only help me but they have such an impact on the kids, their parents and their caregivers. It’s such a great joy!
I honestly can say….I don’t think I am a turkey person…however, I have become limited in getting around. If I cannot physically show up….I am there in spirit! And everyone knows it by phone calls and Text Messages! Praying for others and letting them know that you are is a special way to let others know how important they are to you! And having more contact with the Holy Trinity and the Blessed Mother! Great subject to ponder!
great story John, happy new year! Tim
Nice reminder here, John! Here’s wishing you and your beautiful family a wonderful New Year! Semper Fidelis, Rog
Consistency and Courage matter. Thank you for the gentle reminders.
Before I even got to your comment about Big Brothers Big Sisters, I was thinking the exact same thing. As a three-time Big and a BBBS staff person, I KNOW the impact mentoring has on youth. Thank you for your involvement and support!
I want to remember this story and not be a Turkey Person! I love being involved with others..especially my church family..but my prayer is I’ll expand and “go out into the world” to show Jesus to others..especially my family!
Yes, there are a few occasions each year when I am a “turkey person”, like when our family buys gifts for a Giving Tree at Christmas—gifts that will go to a person we will never meet. But even in the buying, my family and I put ourselves in the shoes of the other person and think about what they might like. Otherwise I always try to be a person that anyone can count on to help, listen, counsel, work until the need is satisfied. I can see how people feel more comfortable with me and rely on me to be there for them, no matter what, and no matter how challenging or uncomfortable the situation might be.
I live in Michigan. It is cold. There is little sunshine. It is getting dark at 5pm. And often it seems to be windy with snow on the first Wednesday of the month. That is when a whole bunch of us show up to a church parking lot to register folks in cars and then hand out boxes of food. I try to be encouraging, warm, supportive. I am always blessed. I think volunteering is what keeps me thankful.